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Originally Posted by Becky Boo
I have been physically addicted to a couple things, but not psychologically. What that means to me is that I'm not an "addictive personality." My own terms.
I have certainly abused substances ranging from cigarettes to, well, that's my business. LOL Pretty assorted though.
But when it was time to walk away, I did so without a whole lot of problems. No need for counseling or support groups, etc., to stay clean.
So I think it's a different type of addiction that those that struggle and struggle. Hence my term "addictive personality." I actually think it's a hard-wired problem, quite physical. Not an optional choice for them.
I hope that made sense.
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Becky,
I guess we're both in the same boat here as I can definately abuse substances, like you said just stuff, like cigarettes and no drugs or anything illegal! I'm good that way and do it cause I choose too, it's what works for me and that's what I choose.
Made complete sense to me.
But it is in my genes so to speak as I am of Irish descent and my great grandfather was from straight over on the boat. Grandmother and grandfather died in a car accident that was due to alcohol. And God knows at get togethers it is definately
there. Now my son has an issue with alcohol as his father was an alcoholic and with it in our genes I guess it was inevitable but I choose to handle things on my own for myself as I can walk away and have done that.
I don't for myself believe in all the meeting and 12 steps but I did get my teenage son into therapy and also into a program to help him but it didn't. He has become just like his father who is German so he just lost out until he matures and decides he wants to do something with his life besides drink as he is now 26 yrs old.