I hate stories like this. Most women only have a c-section if medically necessary and then to be told that they may then have more complications next pregnancy will seem like a double blow. Government departments are always talking about how there should be fewer c-sections and the media writes stories suggesting that women have this major operation because they don't want to go through a normal labour - I've seen the phrase "too posh to push" used; they seem to want to make women who need a c-section feel bad.
Feeding is another area where the media seem to want to give women guilt trips - just so many stories about how mothers are failing if they don't breastfeed.
When will everyone realise that the goal is to have a happy healthy baby and a happy healthy mum and if that requires c-sections, special care and formula milk then there is nothing wrong with that and no-one should feel bad.
Between us my sister-in-law (Elke) and I have 4 boys. E had two c-sections -she's small and her babies were 8lb 12oz and 10lb 6oz. My boys were both a month early and were standard deliveries but until 3 days before he was born Freddie was breech and until he somersaulted the doctors were telling me I'd need a c-section. My boys needed 5 and 10 days in special care, my nephews were home in 3 days so I probably cost the health service more. E breastfed her boys for 6 months. I breastfed my eldest for 10 months and my youngest for 1 year but he had formula as well (as a bedtime feed given to him by his daddy.) All four boys are healthy and happy so who's to say that any of our choices/needs were wrong.
So society/scientists/media/government need to stop giving mothers a hard time.
Yep I know, I'm ranting again
